Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How long did it take for you to get over your Ex?

I just broke up with my ex Bf about 4 days ago cuz i found out that he has been cheating on me for 1 year and even before that too with another girl and who knows how many more. We were together for about 3 years in half...I never knew all about it untill now. He said that he couldn't leave me because he loves both of us...He really seemed soo real and he would say i wouldn't ever hurt you and never cheat on you. Which he did. Its so surprising. He would always buy me everything...He was also real jelous and im sure that it was because of his guiltiness.. Im trying to be strong and not cry. I don't want to fall for him and get back with him. I am just shocked and don't know if i can go through this..

How can i keep it strong and get over him? How long did it take for you to get over your ex and how long where you guys together for?How long did it take for you to get over your Ex?
I haven't really had the relationships you have described there, but a very good friend of mine and I went out a couple years ago. I found out that she wanted to talk to me again and now were better friends than ever before. We didn't really last that long... like a year and a half,and when we broke up she accused me of cheating on her... obviously that's not just an accusation for you, but it took us 3 years to get back to where we are now. But than again her and I have been through so much together it wasn't really an option to stay apart. I found staying active in the community and other things, bands and whatnot, go out with your friends and if/when they bring it up just stop the conversation saying you really don't want to talk about that. Worked for me, hope it helps.How long did it take for you to get over your Ex?
i was with my ex for like 2 or 3 years and i finally got over him about 4 or 5 years later and now we are together again i know it was not good and it took me long but all i did was do things i never did before
a cheater is not worth it.
Same thing happened with my gf. She was cheating on me right under my nose. I gave her all the trust and love in the world I could possibly give her. We were engaged and she had just gotten pregnant. Turned out she ran off with some other dude and never said goodbye or what went wrong. She left me hanging in limbo to sort things out, which I still haven't been able to do even after 2 years. Im still hurt by this fiasco but know what? All of a sudden the clouds lifted up, the gloomy days turned sunny, girls were interested in me and after 2 misserable years of pain I thank god that she did what she did and not later cause she would have killed me physically, spiritually,financially and emotionally. The only advice I can give you is don't worry about how long it takes to get over him, only that you do get over him. Don't feel bad about having feelings for him still but make sure you don't act on them. Avoid contact with him at all costs. The sooner the ties are severed the sooner you can get on your way to healing. Most importantly know that there will be pain due to your broken heart but thats normal. By being able to deal with it you'll become stronger and better person. Take care
it's really hard but u need to move on.

think of doing other activities. and most of all pray

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