I used to be together with this girl from december to july and then broke up with her because she really stopped putting effort into the relationship, got addicted to World of Warcraft and spent all her time with friends from there. Anyway, I keep in touch with her, once every week or two. I phoned her yesterday and she was talking a lot about her WoW friend Charlotte. He's 55 and so I never think much about it. Yesterday though she mentioned how charlotte was sad her parents were restricting her computer use to 3 hours a day, and she wished she could move in with him so they could spend more time playing WoW together. My reaction was disbelief and to laugh, but now I'm concerned about her. She's 19 years old and I don't like how she's talking about this 55 year old. She even mentioned after 9 pm the conversations in her WoW guild are of a more adult nature. What should I do? Should I tell her parents?What would you think if your ex girlfriend mentioned wanting to move in with a 55 year old?
First, she is an adult. There is nothing you can do unless she is a danger to herself or others (e.g. suicidal or homicidal).
It sounds like she needs to grow up and move out on her own. But she will when she is ready or when her parents kick her out, which ever comes first. If she moves in with him, there is nothing anyone can do about it.
Regarding her new boyfriend, she is of legal age and you need to leave well enough alone. She will figure out what she needs in life when she is ready...and she will take actions in her life she feels is appropriate for her.What would you think if your ex girlfriend mentioned wanting to move in with a 55 year old?
well probably you should. maybe do it anonymously? she will be upset of course, and then she might rebel against them..but at least you are trying to save her from a pedophile of sorts
I guess first u should talk to her about it and show that u are concerned and then if that does not work u may want to tell her parents. She might be mad at u at first but she will have to understand later on that u did this for her cuz u care about her. right???
good luck with the situation hun :)