U paying for what u did to her and she's enjoying every bit of it,wondering wheather she will take u back,posting yo question here hoping for someone to tell u she's coming bac,then yo hopes are raised,u even bother her more,she's sure she doesnt want u back.Ladies: your ex is trying to get you back, you are thinking about it but you're not sure. How show it?
Yes-be patient. if she had dinner with you, then she is still open to a connection. I would not pressure her in anyway. Now you don't have to kiss her butt, entirely...but you should begin to do things differently in your relationship then before. Women like to feel secure in a relationship and although you may say all the right words, action speaks louder than words.
Plan something different to do together and let her know that you love her and you have made some mistakes and that you will try your best to show her that you love and respect her.
If she decides she doesn't want to give it another try, be kind, tell her you understand and you will respect her decision and remain friends. But prepare yourself, be prepared to accept only freindship with no bitterness or be prepared to ';step up'; and be the great guy you know you can be to her.