My ex girlfriend is 6 months pregnant and she still hates me because of the fact that I responded so horribly to the pregnancy, I even pushed her in the beginning. I have since sought counseling for my anger problems.
She hates my guts, she wont even let me go to her doctor appointments with her or at least the ultrasounds, she went into labor last week and she didn't even call me to at least be there for our daughter.
When my daughter is born, I don't wan't to miss a day of her life, I even want to be there for my ex.
Since my ex will be breastfeeding I cant take my daughter overnight or for long periods of time.
I want to be able to see my daughter everyday of her life and I dont want to miss a minute.
In short, how do I get my ex to understand that. I know my ex is afraid of me and hates my guts, but how do you handle issues like these? How do I get to see my child everyday since she will be with her mother everyday who hates me!How do you handle custody when your ex girlfriend hates you?
Get a lawyer.
Have you apologized? Does she know you are in counseling? Invite her to go to a counseling session with you to have a third party mediate your discussion.How do you handle custody when your ex girlfriend hates you?
Take your time - trust needs to be built back up. Don't pressure her.